Sunday Gathering - John 4 : 43-54 - Myke Walters - Sermon Only
Ep. 11

Sunday Gathering - John 4 : 43-54 - Myke Walters - Sermon Only

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Episode description

Myke Walters, part of the youth team at MCF, preaches on John 4:43-54 — the healing of the official’s son. She opens with a quiz on the series: John is one of the four gospels and one of Jesus’ disciples, the beloved disciple, writing his memoirs late, around AD 70-100, and deliberately differently from the other three. He tells us why: Jesus did many other signs not recorded, but these are written so that you may believe he is the Messiah, the Son of God, and have life in his name.

The recap runs through the poem in the beginning, the wedding at Cana, the temple in Jerusalem, and then Samaria, where Jesus met the woman at the well. Myke stresses the Samaritans’ response as the contrast that sets up today’s passage: they believed on his word alone. He gave them no sign, yet they told the woman they no longer believed just because of what she said — they had heard for themselves.

After two days Jesus left for Galilee, having said a prophet has no honour in his own hometown — and yet the Galileans welcomed him because of what they had seen at the feast in Jerusalem. In Cana an official from Capernaum, whose son was at the point of death, asked him to come down and heal the boy. Jesus answered, “Unless you see signs and wonders, you will not believe.” When the man pleaded, “Sir, come down before my child dies”, Jesus said, “Go, your son will live.” The man believed and went. His servants met him with news of recovery: at the seventh hour, one o’clock, the fever had left — the very hour Jesus spoke. He and his whole household believed.

Myke’s hook is that she can name the exact hour that changed her life: three fifteen on 20 February 2016, the day she married Toby, a minute before walking down the aisle. She finds the passage challenging because Jesus’ first words to a desperate father sound like a rebuke. Her way through it is the plural “you”: insert “y’all” and he is speaking to Cana as much as to the official — people who knew his family and wanted the spectacle without wanting to know him. That is not why he came. He came on a restoration mission, to restore the relationship we had at the beginning, which is why the church is described as the bride of Christ — a covenant like a marriage, built on trust and the daily laying down of life. If she had stopped at the wedding photograph, nothing of the last ten years would have happened. The official, told to go rather than come, had a day’s walk home in which every step was trust — which is why she says God’s love language is obedience. He could have taken the healing and carried on; instead he believed, with all his household. Nothing he did earned it — not his position, not the fifteen miles, not asking nicely. Grace is receiving what we do not deserve, and the sign is never the point: it points to a relationship, and the boy, healed, would one day be ill again.

Bible passages

  • John 4:43-54 — the passage for the morning, read during the service
  • John 20:30-31 — why John wrote his book: that you may believe and have life (quoted)
  • John 1:1 — “In the beginning was the Word” (recap of the opening poem)
  • John 2:1-11 — the wedding at Cana, water into wine (recap)
  • John 2:13-22 — Jesus cleansing the temple in Jerusalem (recap)
  • John 4:1-42 — the woman at the well, immediately preceding this passage (recap)
  • John 4:39-42 — “we no longer believe just because of what you said”; the Saviour of the world (quoted)
  • John 4:10-14 — the living water, and never being thirsty again (quoted)
  • John 3:16 — “For God so loved the world that he sent his one and only Son” (quoted)
  • John 4:48 — “Unless you see signs and wonders, you will not believe”
  • John 4:50 — “Go, your son will live”

Key points

  • The Samaritans believed on his word alone, with no sign performed among them
  • The Galileans welcomed him only because of the signs they had seen — a deliberate contrast
  • The official walked fifteen to twenty miles from Capernaum with his son at the point of death
  • “Unless y’all see signs and wonders” — the plural includes Cana, not just the father
  • Jesus came on a restoration mission, not to be a sign maker
  • Her wedding, 20 February 2016, three sixteen in the afternoon — she knows the hour
  • “Go, your son will live”: the official believed the word and obeyed it
  • “God’s love language is obedience”
  • He and his whole household believed — belief that came with matched action
  • Nothing he did earned the healing: grace is receiving what we do not deserve
  • The sign points beyond itself; the boy, healed, would be ill again

Calls to action

  • Reflect on where you are in your journey with Jesus this morning
  • If you have heard him speak, take the step of obedience he is asking of you
  • Say again today: I want a relationship with you
  • Pray for the next step, and for the strength and obedience to follow it

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Thank you very much. As Andy said, my name is Micah. For those of you who don't know me,

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I am part of the team that leads the youth here in MCF. I live here on the estate. We have done

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for the last five years, me and my family. I have four wonderful kids, half of whom are represented

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next to me. So when you hear the shouting, that's my responsibility and my fault. You're welcome.

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and I forgot my clicker and I have a dog and I've got the compulsory dog picture if it works

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which it doesn't hey there we go so and I have a dog so you're if you see me around the estate

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you often see me my dog and my kids and you might recognize my front garden as well and

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I literally I've met people on the estate like you're the one with the statues in your garden

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aren't you? So, as a good youth worker, I have a quiz for you all. Oh, that's really

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sad. So, I'm going to not be able to give you the hints. But I've got a quiz for you

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all and there are prizes. So, I'm going to get my glamorous assistant to come up and

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help. And we're going to think about what we've been talking about. We've been, if you

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cast your minds back, glamorous assistant, if you cast your minds back, we have been

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going through the book of John. So my first question is, what is John? Anybody for pride?

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What is John? John is a person. He's one of the gospels. Well done. So who was John?

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There's one of the four gospels in the New Testament. Who was John? Ali. He was one of

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Jesus' disciples. Anyone else?

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Dylan?

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He was the loved disciple.

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I literally wrote that down. Yeah, he was the

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loved disciple. He was

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probably the son

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of Zebedee, brother of James.

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So who, what?

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Anybody know, bonus question,

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anybody know when John was written?

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When was John written?

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John?

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17.

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17.

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so around 70 AD to 100 AD so John was one of the disciples and in his latter years he was

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essentially writing his memoirs and John decided to write his memoirs to write his recollection of

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who Jesus was a little bit differently to Matthew Mark and Luke so that means that he constructs his

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memoir a little bit differently and he does it very intentionally with using numbers and

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highlighting specific things that Jesus said and does.

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And at the end of his book, he tells us exactly why he is writing.

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Oh, I missed the theme.

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At the end of our book, he tells us exactly why he is writing his book.

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He says, Jesus performed many other signs in the presence of his disciples,

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which are not recorded in this book.

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But these, these ones that I have chosen are written so that you may believe

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that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in

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his name. So he has very, very specifically constructed his book with the purpose that

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you will meet the living Saviour and Messiah through reading his book. So that's that part

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of our recap. The next part is what books have we already heard? What parts of the story

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have we already read through? So I've got your little picture to help you think. How does John

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start? Very nice. In the beginning was the word. So it starts with this poem. I can't give chocolates

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to you all, but you all did very well to give yourselves a round of applause. Then we go from

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the poem in John, we go into the next part of John. John 2, anybody have that kind of memory?

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yeah we've got the wedding in cana where um jesus turns water into wine that was ali again which

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has already had a child um we then move on i didn't realize when i was reading too i didn't

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realize that this was in this part of john yeah we have um so jesus moves from cana which is in

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the north and he travels down into the south into jerusalem and in jerusalem he gets really angry

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with the people in the temple

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and he turns over tables

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and there's a really good Red Collective song

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that talks about it at the moment as well.

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From Jerusalem, he travels back north again.

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So he's doing lots of this.

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He's traveling back north again.

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I don't know who said Mary.

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Chocolate, right at the back.

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So he goes back to the north to Samaria

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where he meets the woman at the well.

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And this is really important

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because this is what directly precedes the passage we're going to be looking at today.

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And the woman at the well, he tells her everything that's happened in her life.

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And she goes back to her town and goes, oh my goodness, I found this man.

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He's told me everything that I know, everything about my life.

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You have to come meet him.

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And the passage finishes, because of his, Jesus' words, many more became believers.

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And they, the Sumerians or the Sumeritans, said to the woman,

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we no longer believe just because of what you have said, woman at the well.

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But we believe, we have heard by ourselves,

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and we know that this man really is the saviour of the world.

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And based on his words, all of the Samaritans become believers.

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And Mary Beth is going to read a passage to us now, which follows on.

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Where's the microphone, Andy?

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This passage follows on from this point,

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where just based on what Jesus has said, the people believe.

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After the two days, he departed for Galilee.

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For Jesus himself had testified that a prophet has no honor in his own hometown.

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So when he came to Galilee, the Galileans welcomed him,

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having seen all that he had done in Jerusalem at the feast.

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For they too had gone to the feast.

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So he came again to Cana in Galilee, where he had made the water wine,

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and at Capernaum there was an official whose son was ill.

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When this man heard that Jesus had come from Judea to Galilee,

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he went to him and asked him to come down and heal his son,

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for he was at the point of death.

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So Jesus said to him,

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Unless you see signs and wonders, you will not believe.

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The official said to him,

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Sir, come down before my child dies.

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Jesus said to him,

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Go, your son will live.

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The man believed that the words that Jesus spoke to him and went on his way.

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As he was going down, his servants met him and told him that his son was recovering.

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So he asked them the hour when he began to get better,

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and they said to him, Yesterday, at the seventh hour, the fever left him.

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The father knew that that was the hour when Jesus had said to him,

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Your son will live, and he himself believed, and all his household.

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This was now the second sign that Jesus did when he had come from Judea to Galilee.

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Thank you very much, my glamorous assistant.

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Well done.

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So I have a very important question for you.

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What were you doing on Saturday, the 20th of February at 3.15 in the afternoon?

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Anybody?

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In 2016, sorry.

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Important fact.

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2016.

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Anybody know?

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Rough guess.

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I can tell you exactly what I was doing.

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That is the day that me and my husband got married.

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And at that point, 3.16 in the afternoon, I was on my way down the aisle.

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And I'd just seen a friend of mine.

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I was very excited.

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This man comes back from the, comes back.

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Jesus has done all of this traveling.

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He starts in Galilee.

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He moves all the way down to Jerusalem, then he moves all the way back up to Samaria,

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which is about 50 miles.

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It's several days traveling.

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He goes up through Samaria, comes back up to Cana, back to where he is.

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And he meets this man, and this man knows that at this specific time,

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one o'clock in the afternoon, an event happens that changes his life.

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And what I want us to do today is to go through the passage a little bit over time,

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because I found this passage quite challenging.

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I'd like us to go through and get an understanding

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of why is it that John has chosen to put it

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into his sequence of signs

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that are bringing us closer into a relationship with Jesus.

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So we start with him coming back to Galilee

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and he tells us no prophet is welcomed in his own town.

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So why is he going back when he knows he's not going to be welcomed?

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Why is he going back?

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and the word for isn't always translated as for but it um it means because because jesus had said

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that he wasn't welcomed he is intending to go back to the people who don't welcome him but it then

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says he was welcome so what's going on no prophet is honored but he is welcome but they had seen

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what he'd done in jerusalem so we're starting to think the people are coming they're not going to

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give him honor but the only reason that they want him to go back is because of the things that they

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see him doing. Whereas in direct contrast to how the Samaritans welcomed him just because

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of what he said. He didn't do any signs with the woman. He just spoke to them and they

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welcomed him. So we begin this passage with a direct contrast to what had happened before.

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I wonder, for those of you here this morning, what has brought you here this morning? Have

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you come because you want to see the signs and wonders? Have you come because somebody

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has told you? Have you come because you want to experience more of who Jesus is? Like what

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is bringing you here this morning out of the beautiful sunshine? The next, we next hear

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that somebody has traveled again. So there's lots of movement in this passage. They've

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traveled from Capernaum, which is about between 15 and 20 miles away from Cana. So again,

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and full days walking and traveling.

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And he's come, this official has come

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because his son is ill.

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He has come when he is completely broken.

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I can't imagine what he must have been going through

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when he leaves his house

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knowing that his son will probably die.

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Like that's a long day of walking

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when you know that that's happening.

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And maybe he heard about the signs.

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Maybe he heard about the wine.

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Maybe he heard about what was happening in Jerusalem.

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but he knew that Jesus was his only hope.

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Maybe all he knew was that Jesus was doing something

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and that was his last option.

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But he comes for this day's walk

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and maybe that's something that you've heard as well.

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Maybe you've heard that Jesus is the only option

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but you don't really know that much about him.

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You've just heard these mutterings or these whisperings

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of things that he's done.

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But Jesus' response at this point confused me so much

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because when I hear about Jesus

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when I think of Jesus, I think about this man who welcomes us openly and lovingly. He comes in

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and he says, I have been waiting for you, so I want to welcome you. But instead of saying that

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to this man who is coming and saying, my son is about to die, he says, unless you see the sons

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and wonders, you will not believe. I'm like, that doesn't make sense. That's not the question I'm

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asking. I'm asking you to heal my son. I'm not asking you about anything else. And it's important

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that at this point we recognize that in the original language they had a word for you that

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was plural so anybody who speaks other languages or speaks with a um like understands u.s dialect

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will understand that y'all is quite a common phrase in most other languages and at this point

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we need to insert y'all into it so unless y'all see the wonders and signs y'all will not believe

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because he's speaking not only to the official

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who's come from Capernaum to meet him,

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he's also speaking to the people in Cana who already know him,

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the people who he's grown up around,

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the people who have said,

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I know your dad and I know your brother,

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and mate, who are you to say you are what you say you are?

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Who are you to be changing how you're moving?

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And he's speaking to them who have come and said,

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I just want to see the stuff that everybody else is ranting about,

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but I'm not really that bothered about knowing who you are.

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And he's saying, unless y'all see the signs and wonders,

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unless y'all see me move, you're not going to believe.

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And he's challenging them because that's not why he came.

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But previously, when he's talking to Nicodemus in John 3, he says,

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For God so loved the world that he sent his one and only Son

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so that he can have eternal life.

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I've not come to be the sign maker.

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I've come because we need a relationship

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that restores us back into the relationship

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we had at the very beginning

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where we are one with God.

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And that is why he's come.

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He's come back on a restoration mission.

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He's not just come back to do all of these

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signs and wonders.

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And it's a little bit like we are described,

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the church body, the body of Christ

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is described as the bride of Christ.

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We have described in the terms of a covenant commitment,

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like the ones that we make when we're getting married,

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a perfect marriage that is based on trusting and loving

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and daily laying down of our lives for the other person.

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That is what Jesus does.

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He commits to us and he says, I'm not going anywhere.

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I love you and I will stay with you.

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And I invite you to come into that relationship as well

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and to be part of that relationship with me

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where every day we are loving and trusting and communing

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and walking together through life.

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If I had stayed in this point, in this picture,

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and not moved any further,

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then everything that's happened over the last 10 years

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wouldn't have happened

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because I wouldn't have continued on my journey

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where I actually made the promises to Toby

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and then we travelled together.

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We wouldn't be in Sheffield if I'd stopped at this point.

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nothing else would have happened and so the official in the story says come because my

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child's about to die and at that point Jesus says go your son will live and I wonder if he was a bit

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disappointed he's like I've traveled for 10 days for not 10 days I've traveled for hours I've

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traveled over 15 miles I asked you to come and you're not even moving what do you what do I do

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now or I wonder if he was like okay I've got my response and now I for the next day of walking

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I have to, every step I take, remember that Jesus said, go, my son's going to live,

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and I just have to trust, and I just have to obey.

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And it says that that's what he did, that he believed the word, and he went on his way.

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And I wonder where you are in that walk, whether you have heard Jesus speak,

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and now if you've heard Jesus speak, and what you need to do now is simply obey,

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and you just simply need to take that first step, and as you take each step,

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you need to keep remembering the promise that he has given you that that will keep you moving

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i wonder um how many of you have heard of love languages a couple of you so there's um

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there's five languages there's acts of service physical touch words of affirmation gifts and

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quality time and the idea is that this is the way that we receive love and but different people

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receive love in different ways. So if you're somebody who's like a real gifts person and the

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person just keeps telling you how wonderful you are, you're like, well, it doesn't matter. You

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haven't given me anything. I don't really believe what you're saying. So the whole concept is that

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we receive and we give love in different ways and we need to recognize the person in front of us to

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love them properly. I heard a while ago, God's love language is obedience. And this man exhibits

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that perfectly jesus says go and he obeys he just goes and as he's going he meets it says

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he meets his servants on the way and yet the servants come and they come with the fantastic

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news your son is healed and he the father asks when was he healed which i think is a fair question

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i think i'd want to know the same thing and they say it was and they say it was the seventh hour

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which is also translated as one o'clock in the afternoon.

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And he recognizes that's exactly the same time

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that Jesus had said the word, your son will live.

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And so he returned knowing that Jesus has completed,

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Jesus has fulfilled his word

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at the time when he returns home.

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And as he goes, he could have just left it there.

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As he goes, he could have said, great, my son is better.

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let's carry on with the life that we were living but he doesn't it says the last sentence in this

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he believed and all of his household so not only did he receive the healing but he actually

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decided to change the way he was living in response to that him and all of his household

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his belief came with a matched action and it's i i think this is amazing because there was nothing

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the man could have done that deserved the healing that his son received. He went and he asked but it

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wasn't because of him being an official that Jesus healed him and it wasn't because he'd walked the

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15 miles that Jesus healed him and it wasn't because he asked nicely that Jesus healed him.

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Jesus heals him out of grace and out of compassion and grace is freely receiving what we do not

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deserve. And he acts often before we do. Jesus doesn't need us to do anything or to earn

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anything. He says, I'm going to act and I'm going to heal. And to be honest, you don't

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even have to believe in me. The payment of the healing isn't your obedience or isn't

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your belief. Just because you don't believe doesn't mean that the healing goes away. But

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But as a response to the healing, the sign is simply there to point us to a greater relationship,

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to point us to something so much bigger than the sign itself,

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because the point of this entire sign isn't the fact that the boy got healed.

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The point of the sign is that he's calling us into a relationship with him

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where he wants to walk more closely with us.

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they lead us the signs lead us into a relationship with Jesus and return us into a right relationship

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with God and they're not enough to satisfy the boy got and the boy was healed but he will get

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sick again because that is what happens in life at that point he was made better but the whole

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point of this sign isn't that we will then be okay the point of the sign is that we then move

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into relationship with Jesus who does satisfy and when he's talking to the Samaritan in

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earlier on in the chapter, he says, I am the living water. Whoever drinks with me will never

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be thirsty again because he is wanting to satisfy our physical needs and our spiritual needs. And

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our spiritual needs are satisfied through Christ. And as we go through the book of John, he will

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keep pointing that out. He said, John wants us to understand that there is far more to Jesus than

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simply the miracles that we see before him. And that he wants us to hold on to the relationship

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with Christ he says I've come for you and I want a relationship with you but do you want a

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relationship with me and that is the question today like where are you on your journey with

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Christ are you at the point where you're still seeing signs but you haven't made that step yet

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where you want a relationship with him where where you speak to him every day or maybe you're in the

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point where Jesus is asking you to do something and you need to take that step of obedience

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Or maybe we simply need to say again,

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I wake up this morning and I want to have a relationship with you.

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So as we finish, that is my question.

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I would really love us to take some time to reflect,

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to think about where is it that you are in your journey today

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and where is it that Jesus is sitting with you.

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So if we could pray.

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so thank you Jesus that you came

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for us, that you love us

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that you see us and that you want

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to hold us

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in relationship

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Jesus I pray that you would show

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me what the next step is

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and Holy Spirit

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I pray that you would give us the strength

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and the obedience to follow that

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Amen